Saturday, October 22, 2011

Arkansas Picture Overload & Beginning an Adventure!

My brother and his family made the move from Boston to Arkansas!  After 3 months we were finally able to take a weekend and go visit.  We had a fantastic time.  We arrived Friday night.  Saturday morning we woke up to watch Jake and Luke play football games at Razorback stadium! 


Here is Clara enjoying her view!


Jake is in the black helmet….setting up the play.IMG_3621

Mike coaches Jake’s team.  I did not get any pics of Luke’s game…I am a bad aunt and forgot my camera for the first game!IMG_3626

All the guys….but of course Clara has to be in every pic!  IMG_3631IMG_3634

On Sunday we went to Devil’s Den.  It is a great state park that is great hiking and has the neat advantage of some great caverns to explore.


Clara’s favorite spot!


We loved Devil’s Den so much that the Funder5 returned on their way home and spent another 3.5 hours there on Monday!


Love my fam being silly posing for the pics!



I love this pic of Cullen & Clara holding hands!  IMG_3761

I want to explain the pics below.  We found this really cool rock formation and we all ran to explore it.  I was back trying to get pics and the magnitude of it cannot be captured in a photograph.  Anyway….beside the point….if you will notice in pic #2 below Christian is up on the rock….look above his head at the top of the pic and you will see a black mark, spot, circle-type shape.  It looked out of place to me so I zoomed in for a closer look……


This is what I saw….a HUGE swarm of wasps.  Needless to say…we were OUT OF THERE and FAST!IMG_3779


I cannot wait until we can make it up again to hang out with Mike, Case & the boys.  It was great that Meemaw and Pawpaw made there way up too along with Matt & Candy.  I look forward to more time together, air hockey tournaments, hiking, and loving my family!

Since I have not posted in a LONG while….sorry again!  I will update on a few things going on with our world.  The boys are doing well in school and the transition has gone well.  Cullen loves it but Christian feels he might be able to spend his time in a way that better suits him.  He is thinking he will choose homeschooling again next year along with starting college and beginning to get credits towards his degree.  He also wants to have more free time (instead of an 8-hour school day) to have a part-time job and focus on his hobbies of free-running and theater.  He is thinking he will choose a career in theater/acting but we are not sure what that looks like as of yet.  I am looking into something called College Plus and we have an appointment to speak with a counselor.  I am hoping we can have a better idea of what this will look like for us and if it is a route we are going to go.  It is basically getting college credits by testing out of classes using the CLEP or DSST tests. 

We have also made a HUGE step and leap of faith into the realm of foster care.  We are getting closer to being licensed.  We have done the paper chase, taken the 3-week, 2x a week PRIDE classes, taken the psych meds class, finished SAMA training (restraint class) today, and CPR/first aid/blood-born pathogen on Monday night.  After that we have fire inspection, home inspection, and then we will work on the homestudy process.  We are hoping this will be somewhat quicker since we got licensed with this agency before choosing private domestic adoption and God blessed us with Clara.  So they have a basic homestudy on us already that just needs to be updated.  I am excited and terrified of what is to come.  I know God will equip us to handle anything he throws our way but do not go in blindly.  I am well aware that our hearts are sure to be broken but am also aware that we cannot even fathom how much so.  I do know that our hearts are to be broken for the least of these.  We have a glimpse of what we are walking into because we have friends who foster and have many more joining in the journey but we still are clueless as to what it will look like for us.  I am passionate that God has called us and will equip us to provide a loving, safe place that will provide stability for these little ones that were not blessed with parents equipped to parent at the moment.  I also pray that we can somehow be a light to these parents in their growth to be the glue and backbone for their family.  I pray that they can learn through the tough times that are coming and can love these children in the way God so desires for them.  If they are found incapable of parenting and there is no birth family that steps up for these kids then we will be faced with the decision whether or not we will be the family for the children or whether God has a special family waiting just for them.  I do ask that you will pray for us as we start up this adventure…pray for protection of our hearts & these children, pray that these parents will step up and learn to be great parents, pray for understanding in what is a very difficult thing to understand, just pray for His wisdom and guidance in all of it. 

1 comment:

Laura said...

Congrats on the foster journey. It is a long one to get licsenced but so worth it! The emotions you feel are definitely ones that I have never experienced before but I couldn't imagine not being a foster parent now!!!